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Dating Issues? Here's Why You May be Ruining Your Dates Before They Even Happen

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  • Dating Issues? Here's Why You May be Ruining Your Dates Before They Even Happen

    Let's face it. We don't all fall in 'love at first sight.' No, most of us find ourselves surfing through the dating pool during at least one point in our lives, and often during multiple points.

    It is, of course, completely normal to feel apprehensive before a date, but a few butterflies in your stomach and sweaty palms aside, your attitude and beliefs about the date could actually form its outcome.

    Here’s how it works: the more you hold on to fears, regrets or assumptions (such as that the date will be lousy or you’re sure the person isn’t right for you anyway), the more those things will come true. So if you meet your date with your arms full of your emotional baggage from your past relationships, well your date will probably start carrying some of it for you, and your greatest fears will come true: you will not have found your prince, or princess, charming.

    “The events and feelings in your last relationship do not determine those in your next one unless you hold on and believe they will,” says Hale Dwoskin, CEO and director of training of Sedona Training Associates.

    So if you have a date planned right now, and you're worrying about it, analyzing it and coming up with multiple reasons why it's not right for you, your self-doubt and fears about dating may be sabotaging your personal life.

    In contrast, if you keep an open mind and release your past emotional baggage, such as your fears of being rejected or betrayed, you will stop the cycle. You will stop attracting more of that into your life.

    “You should let go of wanting to change what was and then hold in your mind what it is that you would like to have,” Dwoskin says. “Let go of the thoughts and feelings that say you cannot or should not have it. Also, review your past relationships and figure out what worked best, then allow yourself to be open to more of that. Then simply get back out there and keep letting go.”

    You can find out everything you need to know about letting go by learning to use The Sedona Method. This is the tool used by hundreds of thousands of people to master their emotions, thereby mastering their actions, their thoughts, and their life. And you can master yours too.

    So set your sights high. Imagine the date you’d love to have, and the person you’d love to have it with. When you’re open to releasing, you’ll be amazed at what, and who, is attracted into your life.
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