Hi all,
First of all, happy new year!
Mine isn't that happy at all.
Yesterday, my girlfriend (who I've been together with for 6,5yrs) told me she was or has been in love with someone else. And she has been sleeping with him for the past year. I knew we had our issues, and the passion was a bit gone, but I always believed we were going to work that out. I have to commit, I kissed some random girls while going out as well. So I guess we both made a mess of it. But sleeping with another guy, for a year! I just can't understand it!!!
And I just don't know what to do. I feel betrayed, sad, angry, numb and all of these things. Should we split or stay together? I just don't know. We own a house together as well, and I still love her. In many ways, we are perfect for eachother. I know many people are unfaithful, so what's the point in leaving her, when chances are big, the next one will do the same?
Please help
Many thanks
First of all, happy new year!
Mine isn't that happy at all.
Yesterday, my girlfriend (who I've been together with for 6,5yrs) told me she was or has been in love with someone else. And she has been sleeping with him for the past year. I knew we had our issues, and the passion was a bit gone, but I always believed we were going to work that out. I have to commit, I kissed some random girls while going out as well. So I guess we both made a mess of it. But sleeping with another guy, for a year! I just can't understand it!!!
And I just don't know what to do. I feel betrayed, sad, angry, numb and all of these things. Should we split or stay together? I just don't know. We own a house together as well, and I still love her. In many ways, we are perfect for eachother. I know many people are unfaithful, so what's the point in leaving her, when chances are big, the next one will do the same?
Please help
Many thanks
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