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    There's someone I like and the prospect of not having them retaliate the feelings provides intense grief as well as lust. Is it possible to release these feelings entirely, so that I'm fine either way whether or not I enter a relationship with them, the reason I ask is because these feelings are obviously stronger than the stuff you'd usually release so I don't want to waste my time if it ist possible to release such a strong feeling. Also what wants should I look out for, there's approval but this seems stronger eg I want this person by just for approval but tk quenche the sense of lack or loneliness. Any advice would be appreciated

  • #2
    Yes, Keep releasing. Stronger stuff just request more releasing from you.

    Try the relationship clean-up process, even if the person wasn't present in your day, if you thought of them you can use the clean-up process.

    Alex

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    • #3
      Hi, honestowl

      Are you wanting to change how you feel?
      Could you let that go?

      Are you wanting to control how you feel?
      Could you let that go?

      Could you simply allow that whole story to be there?
      Could you welcome any wanting to do anything with it?
      Could you welcome any feeling that this situation is personal to you?
      Could you let it all go? Let it unravel as it does?

      Those are the things that came up reading your post.
      I think you might be able to release on being attracted to that person, or you might not.
      But, as my coach always tells me, you can release on all the uncomfortable feelings surrounding that.

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      Hi, honestowl

      Are you wanting to change how you feel?
      Could you let that go?

      Are you wanting to control how you feel?
      Could you let that go?

      Could you simply allow that whole story to be there?
      Could you welcome any wanting to do anything with it?
      Could you welcome any feeling that this situation is personal to you?
      Could you let it all go? Let it unravel as it does?

      Those are the things that came up reading your post.
      I think you might be able to release on being attracted to that person, or you might not.
      But, as my coach always tells me, you can release on all the uncomfortable feelings surrounding that.

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      • #4
        hi honestowl, I think honoring your own experiences of your wants would do.

        and jenko has posted a helpful insight I feel I had that, too

        but I think the wanting to change and control they are.... , maybe you mean resistance and wanting to change/control?

        anyways, releasing... into the flow.... like hale said in the 1st part of the super-course:honoring your own experiences!
        Last edited by cyi; 05-18-2017, 08:26 PM.
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