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  • so I guess it didnt work out with someone I met....

    ... I wish it did. Really I do.
    I dont feel like letting it go. I dont want to release.
    I want things to be different than they are.

    She hasn't been in touch, for a while now. Did I do something wrong?
    What happened? I want to know. I want things to be different.

    It feels like she put a magical spell on me and I can't let her go.

    I never felt so strong for someone before. It seemed so right when we met.
    I havn't met anyone else. I havnt had hardly any girlfriends.

    what should I do

  • #2
    Hi alphamach, just a short note from work... I guess we've all been there...

    Could you allow yourself to welcome the feelings as much as you do?
    Could you allow yourself to resist the feelings as much as you do?
    Could you allow yourself to welcome the feelings as much as you do?
    Could you allow yourself to resist the feelings as much as you do?
    Could you allow yourself to welcome the feelings as much as you do?
    Could you allow yourself to resist the feelings as much as you do?

    ..............

    Could you hate the situation as much as you do?
    Could you be open for it to be the way it is just a little bit?
    Could you hate the situation as much as you do?
    Could you be open for it to be the way it is just a little bit?
    Could you hate the situation as much as you do?
    Could you be open for it to be the way it is just a little bit?

    ..............

    Beingness is still embracing you, be blessed,

    Jan
    Skype me up - schedule your free session now!

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    • #3
      Hi Alphamach,

      Jan's questions will be a great help, and see if the following process helps as well.

      Originally posted by alphamach View Post
      ... I wish it did. Really I do. Q: Could you welcome how much you wish it worked out?

      I dont feel like letting it go. I dont want to release. Q: Could you welcome how much you'd like to hold on and how much you don't want to relelase?

      I want things to be different than they are. Q: Could you welcome how much you want things to be different than they are?

      She hasn't been in touch, for a while now. Did I do something wrong? Q: And could you welcome wanting to figure out if you did something wrong?

      What happened? I want to know. I want things to be different. Q: Could you welcome even more how much you'd like to figure out what happened? ...And again how you want things to be different?

      It feels like she put a magical spell on me and I can't let her go. Q: And could you welcome that thought too and the feeling that you can't let her go?

      I never felt so strong for someone before. It seemed so right when we met. Q: And could you welcome the strong feeling, as well as the thought that it seemed so right?

      I havn't met anyone else. I havnt had hardly any girlfriends. Q: And could you welcome that also? That you haven't met anyone else and the memory that you haven't had hardly any girlfriends?


      Q:And now check and see if it feels like this is about you, who you are and what you're about?
      Could you welcome that as well?

      Q:Would it be OK if that feeling just dissolved?


      what should I do
      I and Jan, along with the other coaches on this site, offer a free first session to support your process.
      Delilah
      www.theaccordcenter.net

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      • #4
        wanting oneness?

        I sometimes use...
        1) could you want to be controlled as much as you do?
        2) could you resist wanting to be controlled as much as you do?
        3) could you feel the I in this situation?

        Have you tried letting go of wanting to change what is?

        Also, I remind myself that the love I feel for the other comes from me. It is always there. Sometimes I send that love out to the other "telepathically". If we're all one, then we're never really separate

        I'm new at this, so don't take me too seriously.

        Good luck tonight!

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        • #5
          Very helpful and supportive post Persephone!
          www.theaccordcenter.net

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          • #6
            I'm with Delilah ... that's really good Persephone!
            And Alphamach ... How are you doing with all of this?
            Ryu Yoshida
            website: http://makingthingseasier.com

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            • #7
              Thanks. I want to repeat that process myself.

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